A lil help please?
I am sorry about the confusion here lately..There was some hullabaloo surrounding the contents of this blog. Jaime found my blog and went a little crazy about my last post. I got nervous that she was going to show her friends and so I removed my archive and made all my posts for the last 8 months into drafts because I really didn't want to delete them, but as far as I know it's the only way to make them so nobody can see...
Jaime and I made up. I think she understood that I was feeling bad and a bit betrayed. Apparently there were also some things that I had said and done that made her feel betrayed by me as well. So, we are giving this another go and have promised to talk about the crap that's bothering eachother.
On the other hand, I had a date last night. The guy is a lil young...(ahem isn't that my M.O. anyway? Lol...) He is absolutely ADORABLE though and seems real sweet. He came over to my house last night and we watched Waiting..That movie is so great! I think it went ok, though we didn't kiss we did cuddle. I think that I might have scared him a bit just for the fact that I felt compelled to insist to him that if, in fact, we did hang out at my house that he know that I wasn't trying to sleep with him.. (I recently had someone over to chill out and when he was leaving he didn't look ok. We had been drinking and smoking. I offered him to crash on my couch if he needed to. He said he was ok, then he left. Now he has the impression that I was trying to sleep with him and he's telling EVERYBODY. When I tried to clear the air and assure him he had misunderstood my intentions he laughed and said "ok" in a clearly sarcastic manner...) So maybe he was nervous that I might freak out on him. Or perhaps he just decided he isn't really attracted to me. I do not know. He hugged me and told me to call him. Should I call, or should I wait for him to call me? If I should call him, when is it appropriate to do so?
HELP ME! It has been made very clear to me that when it comes to the "rules" of dating and friends that I am completely clueless...
He seemed very cuddly during the movie and everytime I got a lil snugglier, he would settle right in as if he were comfortable. Ugh. I suck at reading people. I do not know one way or the other...
Jaime and I made up. I think she understood that I was feeling bad and a bit betrayed. Apparently there were also some things that I had said and done that made her feel betrayed by me as well. So, we are giving this another go and have promised to talk about the crap that's bothering eachother.
On the other hand, I had a date last night. The guy is a lil young...(ahem isn't that my M.O. anyway? Lol...) He is absolutely ADORABLE though and seems real sweet. He came over to my house last night and we watched Waiting..That movie is so great! I think it went ok, though we didn't kiss we did cuddle. I think that I might have scared him a bit just for the fact that I felt compelled to insist to him that if, in fact, we did hang out at my house that he know that I wasn't trying to sleep with him.. (I recently had someone over to chill out and when he was leaving he didn't look ok. We had been drinking and smoking. I offered him to crash on my couch if he needed to. He said he was ok, then he left. Now he has the impression that I was trying to sleep with him and he's telling EVERYBODY. When I tried to clear the air and assure him he had misunderstood my intentions he laughed and said "ok" in a clearly sarcastic manner...) So maybe he was nervous that I might freak out on him. Or perhaps he just decided he isn't really attracted to me. I do not know. He hugged me and told me to call him. Should I call, or should I wait for him to call me? If I should call him, when is it appropriate to do so?
HELP ME! It has been made very clear to me that when it comes to the "rules" of dating and friends that I am completely clueless...
He seemed very cuddly during the movie and everytime I got a lil snugglier, he would settle right in as if he were comfortable. Ugh. I suck at reading people. I do not know one way or the other...
posted by Madam Sakura @ 7:41 AM
2 Comments:
At Thu Aug 17, 02:04:00 PM,
Tay Hota said…
was afraid that's what happened, although I assumed it was the ex.... Seems more than afew folks have had their blogs found lately.. freud says there are no accidents (was it freud? dunno...) anyway, whew, tough bein a female, have to live by a very strict set of rules it seems... I like watching the lesbian exercsie woman on tv after project runway... noticed last night how good she is at coming right out and letting people know exactly what she thinks of them, and where their relationship stands... think it's good that you communicvated that to him, even if it "freaked him out" (does that ean disappointed him?? but why not? hell, sleep with the young cutie... and as for the other guy, he's making it sound like a bad thing that you may have wanted to mess around? I'd keep my mouth shut, at least until you put out... lmao... glad you're back
At Sat Aug 19, 07:22:00 PM,
Anonymous said…
I think you should call him, at night sometime.
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